This all began because of me being asked the question: "Is it ok to tell a girl she looks fat IF she asks you?"
I said yes. My logic? If you lie to a person in order to spare their feelings, you are actually hurting them because they can not only still sense in themselves that they are doing harm (whether it be a drug addiction or a bitch eating muffins) but now their denial is being reinforced by a loving person in their life. If you really love and care for someone who is bleeding lets say
