Waffle<3 Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 So my parents just finalized their divorce, and its been shitty as fuck....and I am now living with my Dad in my current house, my mom moved to our other house in Palm Springs....her parents live out there so its probably better, but back to my problem....I am really stuck on what to do.....my mom calls me and I dont answer, she sends me txts, I dont even read them, I just want her to leave me alone....but I dont know how to tell her....any suggestions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratty Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Talk to her and tell her that you need time for this whole thing to settle in and you need to be left alone for awhile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weeman Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Make a ban request? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n1ckkkkk Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Make a ban request? omg this one But in seriousness Dont just ignore her Tell her what you want, be straight forward Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOMNOM Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 It's not healthy to ignore your parents completely. I believe what Ratty said would really help. She's your mom, she'll understand if you need some time to take things into consideration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinta Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 So my parents just finalized their divorce' date=' and its been shitty as fuck....and I am now living with my Dad in my current house, my mom moved to our other house in Palm Springs....her parents live out there so its probably better, but back to my problem....I am really stuck on what to do.....my mom calls me and I dont answer, she sends me txts, I dont even read them, I just want her to leave me alone....but I dont know how to tell her....any suggestions?[/quote'] awww I could never ignore my mom. I assume she was the cause of the divorce.... Anyway, you should say SOMETHING to her. Imagine you had a kid and they just stopped talking to you.... You gotta kinda try to imagine it realisticly. Like loving someone more than anything before. Let her know what's up. I would at least text her or write her a letter even if it's really angry. Well don't write a letter if it's really angry. Not something you'd want someone to hold on to. especially your mother. Anyways, that's my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koragan Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 !ban wafflemom 99999999999999 or go on oprah and express your feelings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Or go on oprah and express your feelings THIS, BACKED. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaMigra Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Yup the best thing to do is say what you are holding back but not the cuss words... You have to express yourself especially in times like this... Keep ya head most importantly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papa John Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 So my parents just finalized their divorce' date=' and its been shitty as fuck....and I am now living with my Dad in my current house, my mom moved to our other house in Palm Springs....her parents live out there so its probably better, but back to my problem....I am really stuck on what to do.....my mom calls me and I dont answer, she sends me txts, I dont even read them, I just want her to leave me alone....but I dont know how to tell her....any suggestions?[/quote'] Restraining order? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staisys Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 I back up what Ratty said. That is a great way to say GTFO to your mom in a nice and calm way. nice job Ratty +6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CubanCarlos Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 First off, sorry i guess, for the divorce. I'm pretty sure its not something pleasent in your life but if it is, O_O? wtf? Like everyone else has been saying so far, don't ignore your parents, its going to make things ten times worse, ofcourse shes going to think you don't want to talk, but she is going to start thinking of reasons why, blame it on people, and your parent's relationship (or what's left of it) will get much worse. Tell your mom what you feel, tell her to not take it personally, (or if it is, go ahead lulz) and just tell her you need some time and its hard for you. We are always here for any help you need Waffle, hope this helps, and you get through that obstacle in your life. <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blitzkrieg Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Yeah, just tell her how you really feel, she's your mom, im sure she'll understand. Its hard on her too, so don't be super mean about it (Restraining orders, oprah, etc...) But pretty much what Ratty said. Just tell her you need some time to figure it all out. Good luck, and I'm sorry about everything thats going on... =( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox* Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 well you can't just ignore her, you still gotta talk to her. Tell her that you just need some time to yourself.......time to think everything through. I know its tough and all but it just a mental unsuitability right now. Take it easy and don't let anything get over your head, keep it....cool. I hope you feel better soon though sorry to hear this.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n1ckkkkk Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 If i had a dollar for how many times ignored is in this thread whoa! money money money Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CubanCarlos Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 If i had a dollar for how many times ignored is in this thread whoa! money money money Actually, you would only have 6 dollars... Im pretty sure you can buy a really crappy game on steam... or this too. http://www.petsugar.com/Snuggliest-Bed-Six-Bucks-Can-Buy-7205493 If i also may add, two of those ignores were from your own posts k im done bai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weeman Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Actually, you would only have 6 dollars... Im pretty sure you can buy a really crappy game on steam... or this too. http://www.petsugar.com/Snuggliest-Bed-Six-Bucks-Can-Buy-7205493 is that a dog or a really big fucking hamster Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox* Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Actually, you would only have 6 dollars... Im pretty sure you can buy a really crappy game on steam... or this too. http://www.petsugar.com/Snuggliest-Bed-Six-Bucks-Can-Buy-7205493 If i also may add, two of those ignores were from your own posts k im done bai So Pwned in the bed now is still $6 right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CubanCarlos Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 is that a dog or a really big fucking hamster LOL i dont know Weeman, its a mutated hamster... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wingless Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 +1 for have a chat. I moved back and forth between residences with assorted visitation schedules from about the time I was 5 until I was 18, and I hold my grudges where I think they are do. Given the right (minded) audience, I would have vetted out my situation with my parents in full, but there was never really an opportunity for me to do that, and that isn't the way you want to live. Best to talk about what's on your mind instead of letting it fester. If it's time you need to get your head straight, then they need to respect that. Family is supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, and look out for the others' best interests, amirite? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ROFLmyWAFL Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Ehh' one of the hardest thing to over come. Just tell her you need some time and even though its hard try to communicate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clams Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Have a talk with her be straight forward I'm really sorry about this situation but your mom is always your mom wither way don't get to far from her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RetiredTacos Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 awww I could never ignore my mom. I assume she was the cause of the divorce.... Anyway, you should say SOMETHING to her. Imagine you had a kid and they just stopped talking to you.... You gotta kinda try to imagine it realisticly. Like loving someone more than anything before. Let her know what's up. I would at least text her or write her a letter even if it's really angry. Well don't write a letter if it's really angry. Not something you'd want someone to hold on to. especially your mother. Anyways, that's my opinion. Kinta said it best, i "hated" my mom around 18-19 during her 2nd divorce, but life goes on. Women are crazy bitches (no sexist), just gotta deal with it bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaac Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Just tell your mom what is on your mind, its not good to keep your feeling inside or its going to kill you. You should be lucky that you have parents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
**Roy** Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 Listen, i am a divorced guy.. your mom just want to let you know that she loves you... talk to her, she also needs your support, she feels bad also, you have to be the bigger man in the picture and just talk to her for like 5 minutes and stuff, she will feel better you will feel better, and its gonna be ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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