rack city bitch Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 So. I'm sure we've all been there. Loving someone and the feeling not being mutual, but being labeled as a "friend" or "bro". This hurts deep down. I'm sort of going through this with..well, two girls. One of which actually did care about me at first, but since she doesn't go to my school(and I see her very rarely), not to mention she isn't allowed to date or hang out with other boys due to her parents. The other one, I've deeply cared about since 8th grade. I'm a Sophomore now, and I did ask her out in my Freshman year during December. I'm still not over the rejection. Her and I are friends still, but I just miss what we used to do. I'd walk her to her locker every day after school, we'd talk for a moment, then we'd hug and say our goodbyes. Now that doesn't happen anymore. I honestly wish I could get over her because it has been two years and I've had nothing with her, we've been in countless arguments..I don't know what it is. I keep going back. Now back to the first girl.. I met her at a festival that takes place in my town every September. When I first saw her, I knew she'd play a vital role in my life. She told me her name, but then had to leave because her friends wanted to go get something to eat. I went back home and found her on Facebook. We talked non-stop when I added her, and it was so wonderful. There was just so much flirtation, and I felt like she was my ticket out. If I could fall for her like I did the other girl, I wouldn't be sad ever again! We were exchanging about 250-300 messages every day. We started texting, and it was great. But one day I noticed something..she wasn't putting as much effort forth. We gradually stopped speaking like we were, and I was really curious why. I continued to put forth so much effort, but still nothing. It wasn't until recently that I found out why that happened. She said, that if I went to the school she went to, and that she was allowed to date..she would have been with me. She even said that if I went to the same school as her(which is literally right next to the county I live in) we could've done it secretly. I really wouldn't have minded that. She had also told me that she actually did really like me, but she knew it couldn't have worked because of those simple little things. I just think to myself, "Why? Why is it that when I FINALLY find someone that is this amazing and beautiful, the dumbest stuff has to get in my way?" I'm still not over her, but she is over me. I just wish I could have been at the school she was at..that way I could see her every day, and just..hold her. It still gets me down every time I think about it. Her and I still talk, but it's not like we used to. I seriously wish it was though. She also told me that I was a really sweet guy that night.. : / So I guess comment with stories or w/e that you have similar to this. Like, if you've ever been in this zone or ever had feelings for a girl that didn't feel the same way about you and maybe we could all help each other out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloImKevin Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 can u sum this up on 2 sentence or less? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rack city bitch Posted February 16, 2012 Author Share Posted February 16, 2012 can u sum this up on 2 sentence or less? summary; friend zone bad and dumb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
porkcow Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 sounds bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diK Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Here is my take. Your young man. Your getting too tied up in the politics of relationships and your only 15. First things first, you need to work on yourself and start building your confidence. If you play your cards right chicks will be chasing you rather then the other way around. So go to the gym and work out, get your tan on, get yourself some nice clothes and go out with your friends to places. I remember back at your age how easy dating was, you didn't even have to say much to get girls attention. As long as you looked good and you presented yourself confidently then you will have no problems getting girls. I know it's pretty superficial what I'm suggesting but that's reality and it builds confidence and confidence is the main ingredient to a lot in life, not just getting chicks. You might not realize it right now but your in your prime right now. 2 years is way too long to be bumming over this chick when you could be filling your phone with numbers. I'm not trying to guide you into becoming some shallow player, I'm just saying keep your options open and beyond everything else, work on yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weeman Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 1. if you're friend-zoned that means she's not attracted to you, doesn't mean you're unattractive just simply not her type get over it and you'll be a happier person 2. Over 3,500,000,000 of the population is female so don't discredit your species by getting hung up on one woman. 3. you're young and so are the women; They have NO IDEA WHAT THE FUCK THEY WANT. 4. It's a numbers game, the more you ask out the more yes and no's you will receive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazaHorse Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 3. you're young and so are the women; They have NO IDEA WHAT THE FUCK THEY WANT. They want me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluHorse Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 I have a summer home and a cabin in the friend zone. anybody is welcome to come visit. please visit me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimzy Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 those friend zone threads :3 It's kind of cute though.. Nothing you can really do about it, get yourself together and on to the next one, as everyone said, you're still young! Plenty of fish in the sea! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 15 year olds with relationship problems :drama::omg: Just remember, there's always a hotter girl lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttaM Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Edit: Take a look at this thread https://hellsgamers.com/threads/21248-Please-understand-this-guys?highlight= Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Fuck your way out of the friendzone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HORUS Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 I have a summer home and a cabin in the friend zone. anybody is welcome to come visit. please visit me. I'll join you up there Blu... Nothing like a dock and a case of beer to clear your head summary;friend zone bad or dumb Both, my friend. I did the same thing in high school; get too hung up on a certain chick, and once the rejection is realized, you just get bummed out. What everyone has said (especially diK, Weeman, and Lazarus :cheers:) are all valid points that you should seriously take into consideration. You're not even 16 yet, you can't drive girls anywhere anyways, so do fret. Just get yourself in shape, develop whoever you are as a character/person, & present yourself with pride and confidence, and girls will come to you (especially the girls who would actually be good for you and to you). Cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wingless Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Aww, that very first life altering, soul-crushing experience that everyone goes through. Well, as is canon, it'll probably change how you present yourself to people, and you'll get over it sometime between tomorrow and never. Both of those things could be good, or bad. I guess it's how you and your penis decide to view it. Also, read Matt's thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rack city bitch Posted February 17, 2012 Author Share Posted February 17, 2012 Thanks you guys(and gals) !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloImKevin Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 summary;friend zone bad and dumb indeed. i agree. [video=youtube;-vUuWBXtqxg] GOD I LOVE JAMIE CHUNG<3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazaHorse Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Jamie Chung... I'd kill just to be in her friend zone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaolin Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 A girl told me I was a nerd :c Then i told her to go fuck herself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awwik Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 A girl called me a nerd and then we fucked. True story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaolin Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 A girl called me a nerd and then we fucked. True story. That cause you already have a girlfriend. You cheater! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazaHorse Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 A girl called me a nerd and then we fucked. True story. Best 5 minutes of my life. <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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