Link Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 Turns out, my best friend, who I went through all of middle school with, she went to a boarding school for our 8th grade year and I stayed here. Well, shes ignoring me, and doesent wanna talk. Thats hard considering I dont have many friends Irl or online, and she was the one person I could rely on, Sorry if this kinda crap isnt supposed to be in the forums, I just needed to get it all out. As I type I continue to ruin my hearing with obsene amounts of Drum n Bass. I feel terrible, too bad to even game. Minecraft, CSS, anything. I feel totally out of my normal. Don't know what to do. Figured somebody in HG would care, cuz none of my other friends do.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CantBeFaded Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 There is always somebody around here you can talk to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazaHorse Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 Hormones. And bad music... are a bad combination. Get outside and spend some time just enjoying the world around you (though in Texas that isn't much). You don't have much if anything to feel anxious for in middle school bud, give it a few years. In the meantime, stop ruining yourself by spending too much time on games and bad music. Find friends who share interests you share and spend time with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExGBrian Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 And bad music.... are you trying to imply that the kpop shit you listen to is good? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LazaHorse Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 are you trying to imply that the kpop shit you listen to is good? Good job trying to derail this thread. Get your drama and your ego out of your forum posts. He's asking for suggestions. Provide some or refrain from posting. Paradox, in the end no middle school relationship is going to last (except for that once in a blue moon "The Notebook"-level crap). Find new friends, find a new girl, and even better find God (or another great passion to live for) and stick to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youthedog Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 And bad music.... are you trying to imply that the kpop shit you listen to is good? Let's not troll another serious thread, thanks. I know how you feel a bit. I played video games too much, only talked to actual friends at school, hun out a few times a year, though people (girls) somewhat hated me yet that was wrong, I just wasn't friends because I didn't go to parties. Honestly, just find people with some common interests, talk to people who sit around you in school, do after school clubs/ whatever. Just be friendly and don't be nervous. It'll all get better soon, trust me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Link Posted September 7, 2012 Author Share Posted September 7, 2012 I know what you mean. I have one other friend in real life that I actually get along with. He is -hg- Vendetta (killer_conundrum) hes gonna request a name change soon. I think. well yeah, Him, and then this girl. She wasent my girlfriend, more like a best friend/sister type of girls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oreo Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 Hey man, I know exactly how you feel, back in 7t/8th grade I literally had 0 friends, over the summer, I talked to no one, spent the whole summer inside my house, falling into a deep depression, I did some things I'm not proud of, and i know how it feels to be so hopelessly lonely, so here's my message to you Things get better Things get wayyyy better, trust me I'm now a junior in high school and I have all the people I need around me who care for me and love me You may be lonely now, you may be hurting now, but trust dude, everything gets better If you're having trouble getting out there, join a sports team, join a club, for me football opened up a whole new world Once you hit high shool, you will find people to connect with and open up to, and if this girl doesn't wanna stay on board, fuck her and open up space for new people Don't do anything rash, people come and go, all this bullshit passes and people will come into your life that care Good luck man, ever need to talk just pm me P.S this community is full of loving and caring people, who are here for you when you need it, I know they were here for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Link Posted September 7, 2012 Author Share Posted September 7, 2012 I hope when you said "fuck her" you didn't mean it literally xD thanks though, it means alot, even though I dont know you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 We're here for you man. If you ever want to talk add me on steam. [HG] MaGiC the Inmate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Prodigy Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 Like Laz said, get out and get fresh air. The worst thing you could do is trap yourself in your room with your thoughts. Get out, and take your mind of things with some friends or hobbies! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Link Posted September 7, 2012 Author Share Posted September 7, 2012 Thanks guys it means alot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 iTalk is a great counselor. You should talk to him about your situation, he's full of knowledge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elephant Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 I had no friends in middle school and I still wonder how I managed to still be alive out of there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkMonotone Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 iTalk is a great counselor. You should talk to him about your situation, he's full of knowledge. What John said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-O-P-rime Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 If you're truly 13 then you shouldn't worry so much about girls! You still have your entire life ahead of you to explore and try out new things. Don't get to flustered over a single person at this stage of your life. Girls come and go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitary Ocean Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 I'm not sure if this will help, but ROTC did wonders for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deadlock Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 I'm sorry to hear you're having a bad time. However, you're young. You have plenty of time to remake friends. Just, be friendly to people, involve yourself in activities. Join a sport or a club, you'll get friends that way as long as you put yourself out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
60Seconds Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 Don't worry, you'll make new friends. Also, she could just be in a bad mood. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabe Posted September 7, 2012 Share Posted September 7, 2012 We care man! I know how you feel, I've been in like total heartbreak since me and my last girlfriend broke up... I turned to HG to get my mind off things. Also this is basically totally off topic-ish. but try going after another girl, it's what Im doing right now, and it's making me think of different things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chicken Wings Posted September 8, 2012 Share Posted September 8, 2012 are you trying to imply that the kpop shit you listen to is good? PS Im an asshole Honestly Paradox you should move on. It is hard to lose a best friend, but it's easy to make better ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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