No official format so I'll post to post and keep it short
Happened during a community meeting and one of my buds 'Looney' (Discord Name) 'Nothumbs' (Ingame Name) was really annoying me so i made very obvious jokes about his existence, yes it's not cool this and that, But let's be honest if him popping a random unrelated question about something that annoys me wasn't enough of an indicator that he was trying to provoke me, It should make it all the more obvious the reply wasn't very serious either (I let people know when I'm being serious)
And If it's still not cool, then don't let people jokingly provoke another person during such meetings, problem solved.